How can we dare to love if so many romantic ghosts hunt for our expected special one?
If we spot sights of the third participant in the relationship, what’s next? Should we run? Should we tolerate?
I’m against tolerating. How can we be in an exclusive relationship if there are three of us?
We all have been there. As the narrator in the Love Life series says:
“For instance, by the time the average person ends up with the love of their life, they will have been in seven relationships. Of those, two are often long-term relationships, while the rest are a mix of short-term flings, casual dating and one-night stands. The average person will also fall in love two of those times, and have their heart broken twice as well.”
It’s only Deadpool being romantic reminiscing days with his true love. But must it be the end? And if that person decides that no love life is possible for them, why do they involve in new fake love stories? Am I too judgmental? Am I egoistic? Am I tricked by myself, hoping for more? The latter is the answer.
A person with a ghost won’t be too scarce on this topic. They’ll let you know as soon as possible that the big true love is gone and their happiness is also there. They’ll warn you: “Please be advised that I’m emotionally unavailable, and in case of feelings, you can hurt your heart”.
Any change goes from inner intention. Don’t expect to be a lifesaver for those who don’t look for one.